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My son is named Julian and he's a very sweet and caring boy according to everyone who meets him. He's six years old right now, but when he was four we found out he has Type 1 Diabetes and is on the autism spectrum. For our family, 2022 made 2020 look easy!
If you're like me and your child has disabilities as well as different abilities then you will understand firsthand what I am about to say. I watch Julian sitting atop his trusty steed Bradley who is short, furry, cute and ever so reliable and safe like all the wonderful horses and ponies of Ivy Hill. Julian's lessons are such a peaceful time for me. A chance to come up for air during a long chain of often overwhelming moments. I notice my breathing has slowed and my shoulders relaxing. For a half hour, Julian can hold the reins on his own life. With his teacher and volunteers close by his side his mind and body work together to balance in the saddle. Horses traditionally represent freedom, power, independence. All things moms and dads wish for their children. When your child has special needs those things seem so much further out of reach. Just like autism is on a spectrum, so too are the child's potential to develop into an independent adult. I love Ivy Hill, because as I stand here watching my son steering Bradley around the rainbow colored cones I feel a sense of peace and reassurance.
In a few moments, I'll watch as his teacher Erin helps him put his feet back on the ground. Then I'll smile because he'll give Bradley a big pat and thank him. It wasn't that long ago that Julian was too anxious to touch an animal, but now it's another activity of joy he has and I feel hope. Suddenly, he comes bursting into the lobby like a mustang with all the wild abandon of a young boy. We say our goodbyes to Erin now that I've got him wrangled and heading towards the exit. Worry quickly floods my brain as I gently grasp his shirt as well as the hope I felt just a moment ago. How quickly my shoulders tense as I wonder if Julian will be able to function as an independent adult? How is he going to manage his diabetes care? I worry about his sensitive nature in this crazy world we all call home. But, as we pull down the drive I am leaving with a gift. The wonderful memories we create each week. I smile again and remind myself of Julian's giggles as he trotted around the ring. And once again he is just a six year old boy. Horses only live in the moment and I can too! Thank you Ivy Hill. May you always stay blessed!
—Ivy Hill Parent